Honoring My Tatay "PERLOT"

From Saudi with love - my Tatay took a vacation to take care of my Nanay...A dedicated husband and certified caregiver...Most of the times, I was just silently observing him - how he light-heartedly served his wife.

I recall one incident...While I was lying on the floor in our sala, I got awake and saw my Tatay covering my legs with blanket...I was so touched as if I'm still a teenager who's being protected by a father.

His hospitality is natural - he's always ready to offer anything to our visitors...His favorite is hot espresso served in small cups...He's a good listener and has wit and humor...My Nanay's circle of friends is very much amused of my Tatay - how he cracked jokes as "tagabola" in their weekly Bingo social.

There were countless little acts of kindness he has done for us - not only to his family but to others.

I want to thank and honor my Tatay for spending a meaningful vacation with us....I really appreciate all the sacrifices he's been doing for us, his demonstrative love for my Nanay, his simplicity, and faith in God....

Big Bro luv dogs...

It's just one his dogs...(I don't even know the name of his new dog because I'm not a pet lover)...His two other dogs "Husky and Negro" are giving birth almost every 6 months but he has no choice but to give away the puppies - Otherwise, he can't feed them all...

Lola is leaving again...

For sure, we'll gonna miss Lola...She's going back to the States after 2 months of vacation...

It's touching how she tried to serve us in her own little ways during her stay..We're all grown ups but we're still being pampered by our Lola..She sees to it that we have food to eat and loves washing the dishes..

We thought she's staying with us for good...but she changed her mind and decided to leave again...She really missed her great grandchildren - Dakota and Kailani.

We're so thankful for the chance to be cared for once again by our loving Lola Ingga....

My TITO DENNIS....

If there's one person who loves me so much, it's my Tito Dennis - a brilliant fashion designer based in Dubai.

I remember one humorous tale about us, it happened long time ago....My Tito bought me a long sleeve, white blouse with a wool vest and skirt at Cinderella...because he always wanted the best for his one and only niece. On Christmas day, I felt faint inside the church because of my warm and three-piece, woolen outfit....

And my Tito never fails to greet me every year, on my birthday...so lucky to have him!

Pretty, young bride - ROCHELLE

She's my very first my "inaanak." At first, I declined her but she's the daughter of my first cousin "Kuya Ronnie," so I can't say no to her tatay. Anyway, she's beautiful and so proud to be her Ninang...

Funny Beteng!!!

Last Monday, I got a text message from Beteng that he was stranded at Marcos Hi-way due to heavy rains and flood. "Nakasakay ako sa truck ng bakal, iniisip ko na lang ay nasa float ako ng Manila Film Fest (MFF)"...At 12:45AM, he texted me again, "Dream, Believe, Survive!..I already got home."

How can you resist the charm of this person who can still inject humor in trying situation...The reason why I'm happy single is I surround myself with happy people and Beteng is one of them.

My Lolo Zario's Birthday...

There are a lot people who have influenced my life and my Lolo Zario is one of them. Though he had already joined our Creator few years ago, great memories of him are still vivid on my mind. And I do believe that he's still with me in spirit and he never fails to pray for me.

It's his birthday and I thank God for the chance to be loved by a "LOLO" who has a lot of humor but a caring heart. That's the legacy he has left and it's an inspiration to all of us.

I do miss my Lolo Zario, especially the special love and attention he has given me!!!

It was my debut party, 20 years ago...

A Woman of Faith - TITA PRECY!

If there's one person I'd run to in times that I need intercessory prayers, it's my Tita Precy! It's still my day off, so I thought of calling her...and it was a sensible conversation with her. I love listening to her sharing and testimonies - triumphs over trials through the grace of God.

It's my chance to honor my Tita Precy. She's the beloved mom of my good friend "Joyce." She continuously inspires me with her demonstrative love and persevering spirit ...After a dialogue with her, I felt gratefulness in my heart because she touched me again.. I do consider her as my second mom, too!!!

Let me share a text message I just received:

Good people make us see what it means to be blessed by God. He blessed with good people...so let me say "THANK YOU" for being one of my blessings."

And these are the exact words I'd want to tell her now...Since she's not my textmate, I have an alternative way - to blog about my beautiful TITA PRECY!!

He's not my Boyfriend!!!

When I posted our picture at Friendster, I received a message from my college friend, asking if "he's the lucky one." Single life has lonely moments but with my friend "Beteng" around, you won't entertain such thought. He could get your full attention with his comic way of narrating. He could help you temporarily forget your problems - just laugh and never sweat the small stuff!

Being amused by most of his stories, I would also share the laughter with my other friends. I'm lucky that I have a lot of "clowns" in my life- they know who they are!....If Ate Guy has Kuya Germs....well, I have my gigantic buddy "Beteng."

I'd rather not tell some of our crazy moments together because I have to protect the image of Mr. Baltazar - a full-fledge teacher.

Honoring my 2nd Mom!

We fondly call her "Etang" - which stands for "Etang Dicher", a famous villain in Sampaguita movies in the 60s and 70s. Contrary to her pet name, is a loving mother, doting grandmother and a friend.

She's the mother of my bestfriend Ailene, who treats me like her own daughter. I'm always welcome in their home and has been a part of her feeding program eversince. She's a typical homebody mom who loves to cook and do the chores. After doing her tasks, she relaxes by watching TV solely on Channel 2. Her favorite is none other than Kris Aquino. She's a regular follower of the network's noontime shows, soap operas, reality shows, etc...In short, she loves showbiz and the buzz!!!

She's easy and fun to be with! A beautiful widow with a good heart!

People I've worked with....

I've shared a lot of funny memories with my colleagues. And I've been with this department for almost five years. We may have differences but we've tried to get along and have helped each other in so many ways.

Of course, I won't forget what I've learned from a call center job. I've overcome my fears of speaking with people from all walks of life. I've been trained on how to manage different kinds of emotions, especially "anger." I've mastered the skill of keeping my poise and composure in dealing with irate clients. I've become a better and stronger person through my internal and external customers. Lastly, I've discovered beautiful friendships and that's the most I'm thankful for.

it's ONG!!!

Me and Ong


He’s not a Chinese tycoon, but a native of Cainta. His real name is DupONG, in short ONG!….This guy has a natural sense of humor. You won’t be bored with ONG around. You’ll be amused by his great story-telling ability...

A die-hard fan of Sharon Cuneta…He has memorized the popular lines and timeless songs of his idol…And we never get tired listening to him because he always makes us happy...

ONG is one of my valuable friends. He may not be financially rich but he’s richer with real treasure of joyful experiences....

Thank you for a bucket of laughter you bring into our life!

Common Denominator

Beth is one of my good friends. Through her sister, Whia, who first became my friend, I got close to her.

A simple lady who’s an avid fan of Sharon Cuneta and now, a supporter of KC Concepcion. She loves to read novel and watch TV. She’s a woman of few words and a reliable friend.

We have a common denominator – we’re both single by fate! We may not be lucky in love but we’re lucky enough to have each other! I love you, Bethsheeba!

Real Friends...

I believe that true friends are being used by God to enrich our life. Fortunately, I found two of them in my workplace, they are:

Wilfred – fondly called as “Will,” a pet name suited to his personality. When he wants something, he has the will power to get it. Our friendship has grown deeper in a short period of time. This person is genuine - what you see is what you get from him! He’s vain but thoughtful. He’s an outstanding son, an affectionate brother, and a dependable friend.

Angela – her nickname should be “Angel” because she really knows how to care. She’s been through a lot in life but she maintained her poise and forgiving nature. I witnessed how she had easily recovered from the tragic loss of her home. I really admire her resilience. She is beautiful – in and out!

Thank God for the gift of friendship!

Tita Helen

A devoted mom, a loving daughter, a good friend and a thoughtful aunt. For more than 15 years, she's been working abroad as a "nanny." I salute her for inspiring our lives - how she genuinely cares for us and for others. We've been blessed to have you.

Thank You....

My Dream...

It has always been my dream to wear a gown designed by my Tito Dennis. My cousin, Martha, who just turned 18, was indeed lucky to wear one. That evening, I envied her because she’s stunning.

I neither had a debut party nor had a chance to join any beauty contest. But hopefully, my dream will become a reality- to walk down the aisle with pride of wearing a dazzling gown, designed by my brilliant uncle. I’ve told you, being single is not my choice, but to carry a “Dennis Fernandez’ creation” will always be my perfect choice.

Black is Beautiful!

"Mr. Baltz" to his students, "Eustaquio" to his classmates, "Junior" to his family, and "Beteng" to his friends. He's the funniest mammal I've ever coexisted with on earth. With his natural wit and humor, life has become tolerable with him around. He's lighthearted, but don't take his blatant criticisms seriously, for you to get along.

Junior is still single but has a good sense of family responsibility. A dependable son, a supportive uncle, and a doting grandfather. Mr. Baltz is a dedicated teacher while Eustaquio is a notorious student. Behind that unique face with not so dark complexion you won't easily forget, is a beautiful person in and out! He's my knockout friend, Beteng! Blacky is beautiful...I'm sorry...I'd rather say, "Black is beautiful!" Long live our tribe!

Getting Bald?

Getting bald has never been a problem to the two gentlemen. They may not have the Adonis look but they have the guts to face anyone. With their innate sense of humor, they have captivated the hearts of two beautiful women, who are sisters by blood in their native town.

Seriously speaking, I’m all praise to these two family men because they have true sense of responsibility. Their wisdom of experience shows on their receding hairline that makes their respective family proud.